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You don’t need to be SAD during the autumn and winter months

Seasonal Affective Disorder, food cravings and some helpful hints   It has been noticeable to me recently that the days are getting shorter, it’s darker in the mornings and gets darker earlier in the evening.  British Summertime ends on the 28th October.  The autumn and winter months used to have a huge impact on me [...]

Belief in your inner, wise abilities can be helpful to health

Do you believe that what happens in life stems mainly from your own ‘internal’ actions (self belief) or do you think that ‘external’ factors such as other people, fate or luck have more to do with life events?   Researchers at the Melbourne Institute of Applied Economic and Social Research, Australia, have been looking to [...]

How do you love and take care of yourself when you feel unwell?

  When you are feeling a bit run down, or just downright ill, how do you take care of yourself?  Do you rest, drink plenty of fluids, turn off the phone and computer OR do you carry on regardless, putting on a brave front, over-using painkillers and being ‘the trooper’?  Perhaps you even use food [...]

We are all so precious, let’s celebrate that!

Sometimes something happens to cause a powerful internal shift in our lives.  Looking back on my life a few powerful occasions jump out.  The end of a relationship and the loss of my riverside London home that I shared with the man.  The fizzling out of a friendship that meant so much to me.  My [...]

Do you need chocolate or do you really need a hug?

Chocolate.  Dark, milk, raw, organic.  Chocolate.  Yum.  Raw, dark chocolate is something I really enjoy and savour.  However there was a time that dark chocolate felt like my best friend.  Eating the ‘black gold’ seemed to soothe my soul, chocolate was love.  Or so I thought – until I would wake up from my daze [...]

Choose self-love today

  If you truly loved yourself:   *How would you talk to yourself? *What would you wear? *What would you do for relaxation? *What would you do for pleasure? *What events would you go to? *What events would you say ‘no’ to? *What would you choose to eat and drink? *What would your friends be [...]

Comfort eating? Take a look at your stress levels

Emails, phone-calls, children, pets, partners, work, money, social life, friends, family…..  anxiety and complete overwhelm?!!!  Sometimes it feels like we cannot keep up with the pace, our list of things to do, people to keep happy and other commitments becomes out of hand.  This is when we need to learn to STOP, BREATHE and remember [...]

Busting old food beliefs

  “You are such a good girl for eating everything on your plate” “If you don’t eat everything on that plate you won’t get any ice-cream” “It is bad to waste food, there are starving children in the world” “If you are a good girl mummy will buy you some chocolate” “Don’t be sad, don’t [...]

Throw away your bathroom weighing scales. Do it now.

  Oh for the Love of your Divine Inner Goddess, I beseech you – throw away those damned bathroom scales!!   I am totally on my knees begging you to take this action. What do you think those scales are going to tell you?  That you are now worthy enough to wear what you want [...]

We come in all shapes and sizes and we are all real

Recently the wonderfully SASSY Lisa Clark wrote a blog post “What is a real woman”  It got me thinking (dangerous, I know) about women, bodies, shapes and sizes, self love and emotional eating.   Lisa called for comments on her facebook page about what a real woman was.  I commented “The comparison game is one that [...]