Ani

Learning from bikers

  My love of being a pillion rider on our motorbike, Zizi, is something I have written about previously. The freedom and the closeness to my husband Chris are a joy to behold! Beyond the sense of meditation that I get from being on the bike there is something else that I have learned to [...]

How do you cope when it feels like you are riding a roller-coaster of emotions?

  Recently I have been challenged in ways I hadn’t expected. Over the last 10 years I have been learning to ‘be’ with my emotions, to feel them, to allow them, to witness them change, rather than react to them via eating or other escape mechanisms. If you read my blog posts you will see [...]

Learning to be who you are in any given moment

  Last week as I was walking the dogs a lady power-walked by with a T-shirt on that read: “Strong is the new skinny”. Slogans like this one  have been going around Facebook and other internet sites. I have also seen this same slogan on photos of ‘ripped’ women in the gym doing planks and [...]

Food and sex

  The following is an excerpt from Love or Diet which is due to be published very shortly (exciting!): “When women begin to look at patterns, feelings and needs they often find that their eating and feelings of sexuality, sexual power and sexual beauty are all linked. Many, but not all women who suffer with emotional [...]

Emotional eating as a mis-interpreted call to connect to your body

  At the moment I am reading “REVEAL, A sacred manual for getting spiritually naked” by Meggan Watterson, you may have read some of the quotes from the book that I posted on my Facebook page. I highly recommend this book, it is beautifully written. Meggan writes about many things including how to begin honouring ourselves. Last [...]

When we slip back into body criticism how can we recover?

  Yesterday my friend and mentor, Lisa Lister, wrote a beautiful blog post, Every body has a story, which touched me deeply. In the post Lisa writes: “I’m a size 18/20 and I’m hot. I have a gorgeous friend who is a size 8, she’s hot too. Society would like to label us ‘fat’ and [...]

Investing in yourself is an act of self care

  For years I found it difficult to spend money on myself. I thought it was selfish. On some level I believed I just wasn’t worth it. Spending money on my friends and family was easy, if I was out I always offered to pay, I bought beautiful gifts for the loved ones in my [...]

Cultivating an attitude of gratitude

    Today I am filled with gratitude for many things: for waking up in a warm bed (it is mid-March and still feeling like winter here in the UK), for the singing birds, for Chris and Fredd-dog, for a lovely morning walk, for hot running water….and so much more! If you are a regular [...]

Strategies to prevent emotional eating when you feel overwhelm building

  Having nourishing strategies to help you cope during times of overwhelm is a key nurturing tool for preventing binge episodes or emotional eating. Each one of us needs to find our own personal recipe for self-soothing without resorting to stuffing down the overwhelm with food. I have written before that it is important to [...]

Mindfulness can help to interrupt emotional eating patterns

  The Buddhist principle of mindfulness is now being studied in depth as an aid for helping with many issues in life from stress and depression to emotional eating. Mindfulness is about bringing our awareness, our attention back to the moment, back to the now.  Mindful eating is a fantastic tool for shining the light [...]